Psychological Play: Belts & Slappers
My favourite part of kink is the psychological play. Before I discovered this, I never really understood the draw. I loved the outfits and I knew I had a darker side that I was a little scared of, but I never knew how to go deeper and experiment or play with that darker side.
For example belts. For me, belts immediately bring up images of abuse. Just the thought of taking off my belt to hit someone would put me in a negative headspace.
I have made a selection of slappers to allow people that are curious are about belts, to experience it separate from the context of having to take off a belt.
My slappers are 2” wide and of a heavy full grain leather. They have a sewn, steel core handle and are far stronger than the average store bought belt which are usually a bonded leather. They are thuddier than an actual belt and provide better control for the top; so there is less chance that they wrap. These make a lovely loud crack to tickle the mind.
More experienced people will know that these can be used with large differences in force quite easily without fear of inadvertently cutting with a buckle. They are fantastic for tender bits once you are comfortable with your aim.
I hope they help you on your kink journey.
For example belts. For me, belts immediately bring up images of abuse. Just the thought of taking off my belt to hit someone would put me in a negative headspace.
I have made a selection of slappers to allow people that are curious are about belts, to experience it separate from the context of having to take off a belt.
My slappers are 2” wide and of a heavy full grain leather. They have a sewn, steel core handle and are far stronger than the average store bought belt which are usually a bonded leather. They are thuddier than an actual belt and provide better control for the top; so there is less chance that they wrap. These make a lovely loud crack to tickle the mind.
More experienced people will know that these can be used with large differences in force quite easily without fear of inadvertently cutting with a buckle. They are fantastic for tender bits once you are comfortable with your aim.
I hope they help you on your kink journey.